Patrick Michael Nechkash Obituary
June 14, 1984 – June 8, 2025
OREGON, WIS. — Patrick Michael Nechkash, a devoted husband, loving son, and loyal friend known for his unwavering generosity and irrepressible spirit, died unexpectedly on June 8, 2025, at the age of 40. A lifelong resident of Oregon, Wisconsin, Patrick’s sudden passing has left a deep sense of loss in a community he called home for all his days.
A Life Rooted in Relationships and Community
Born on June 14, 1984, in Madison and raised in Oregon, Patrick—or Pat, as most knew him—grew into a man whose sense of purpose was defined by connection. His presence was the kind that brought people together. Whether it was a backyard bonfire, a local fundraiser, or a last-minute road trip, Patrick had a way of making every moment feel meaningful.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Erin Nechkash, and his parents, Jerome and Teresa Nechkash, who described their son as someone who “never just passed through life—he stopped, connected, and left people better than he found them.” He also leaves behind several cherished nieces, nephews, cousins, and a large circle of friends who regarded him as family.
Big Heart, Wild Spirit
Friends say Pat lived with “a big heart and a wild spirit,” a combination that made him unforgettable. He was the kind of person who offered help before being asked, showed up without fanfare, and made everyone feel seen. In conversations, he listened without distraction. In hardship, he stood firm. In joy, he was the first to celebrate with a laugh that could fill a room.
His adventurous streak took him on countless hikes, paddling trips, and spontaneous getaways. But it wasn’t just the activity—it was the camaraderie that mattered most to him. “He brought people together like no one else could,” a close friend said. “He made life feel lighter, more fun, and more honest.”
A Quiet Force for Good
Outside of his close relationships, Patrick quietly invested his time in mentoring young people and supporting neighbors in need. He volunteered for community initiatives in Oregon, helped organize local clean-up efforts, and regularly donated to causes he believed in—often without telling anyone.
Patrick’s wife, Erin, described him as “the anchor of our life together—steady, passionate, and endlessly kind.” Their bond was rooted in shared laughter, deep respect, and a mutual sense of adventure.
Though Patrick was private about many of his good deeds, their impact is widely felt today. In tribute to his values, the Patrick Nechkash Community Fund has been established, with proceeds supporting local youth mentorship programs and outdoor education.
Public Remembrance
A public memorial service will be held at Gunderson Funeral Home in Oregon on Saturday, June 15, 2025, at 2 p.m., followed by a community reception hosted by the Nechkash family. Friends and loved ones are invited to attend and share stories.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Patrick Nechkash Community Fund, which reflects his lifelong commitment to helping others quietly and meaningfully.
A Life That Echoes
Patrick’s story is not defined by career titles or accolades—it is defined by presence. He was there. For the hard moments, for the laughter, for the long talks and the quiet support. His legacy is the thousands of small kindnesses that now live on in the hearts of others.
His loss is deeply felt, but so is the gratitude for having known him. As one friend posted:
“You’ve always been a brother to me. Your big heart and wild spirit will live on in all of us. You will forever be loved and missed.”
Patrick Michael Nechkash leaves behind a world that is unquestionably better for his having been in it. In life, he showed how far a good heart could reach. In death, his example endures.
